You cannot use Relay on the same content as other sync services like Obsidian Sync, iCloud, Dropbox, or Google Drive. If these services compete over the same content, you are likely to get conflicts and data loss.You can use multiple sync services in the same vault as long as they are working in different parts of the vault.This is the same requirement imposed by any sync service, including Obsidian Sync.
Use Relay for the shared project folders where you need true multiplayer
For everything else that you want to sync between devices, use whatever sync service you want, including Relay (just set up a separate Relay Server), Obsidian Sync, or iCloud, etc. If using something other than Relay, make sure to exclude the Relay-covered folders from this service
Double-check to make sure no folder or file is handled by both services
Dangerous setup:
Running a file sync service like Obsidian Sync on your entire vault, and running Relay on a folder within that vault ❌ (double coverage)
Different sync services use different approaches to handle simultaneous changes. When two services try to sync the same files, they can get overwrite each other’s changes or create race conditions that result in data loss.Each sync service assumes it’s the authoritative source for your files. Running multiple services on the same content violates this assumption and creates unpredictable behavior.