If your stack icon is gray, Relay cannot track changes properly. This means your edits won't sync to collaborators and you won't receive their updates.
If you continue editing while the stack icon is gray, you'll likely see merge conflicts when Relay reconnects because it will detect mismatches between your editor and the local database.
What the gray stack icon means
The stack icon shows whether Relay is successfully tracking changes to the current note as CRDT updates. When it's gray, something has gone wrong with the local change tracking system.
Relay works by keeping three things in sync:
The content in your Obsidian editor
The content stored on your hard disk
The content in your local CRDT update database
When these fall out of sync, the stack icon turns gray to alert you.
Common causes
Outdated software versions (Relay, Obsidian, or Obsidian installer)
File sync conflicts between different services
Other plugins interfering with file operations
Solutions to try
Work through these steps in order. Most problems resolve with the earlier steps.
1. Check for updates (try this first)
Outdated software is the most common cause and best-bet way to resolve tracking issues. Update all three components:
Update Relay:
Go to Obsidian Settings → Community plugins
Find Relay and check if there's an update available
If so, click Update
Latest version always listed at https://relay.md/relay/releases
Update Obsidian app:
Go to Settings → General
Select "Check for updates"
If updates are available, select "Relaunch" to apply them
Run the installer (you don't need to uninstall first)
This updates the Electron framework and may be required for newer plugins or features
After updating, restart Obsidian completely and check if the stack icon is now colored.
2. Check sync service conflicts
If you're using other sync services (Obsidian Sync, iCloud, Dropbox, etc.), make sure they're not syncing the same folders as Relay. This can cause file conflicts that break tracking.
This includes plugins that have a special view, like Kanban, and plugins (or custom functions) that update note content automatically — such as if you have a plugin that updates frontmatter with the note's last updated date.
Identify any such plugins
Try disabling them
Check if the stack icon becomes colored
If not, try disabling ALL other plugins
Check if the stack icon becomes colored
4. Reload Relay
Open the command palette (Cmd+P on Mac, Ctrl+P on Windows/Linux)
Run Relay: Reload Relay
Check if the stack icon becomes colored
5. Reload Obsidian
Open the command palette (Cmd+P on Mac, Ctrl+P on Windows/Linux)
Run Reload app without saving (Obsidian saves automatically many times per minute)
Check if the stack icon becomes colored
6. Check authentication
Click the Relay ribbon icon to open Relay settings
If not signed in, log in
If you have multiple accounts, make sure you're using the right one
Even if auth looks fine, sometimes logging out and logging back in can resolve a silent authentication issue
Check if the stack icon becomes colored
7. Toggle syncing
For the individual note:
Click the satellite icon in the note (top right)
It should toggle from colored to gray
Click it again to toggle back to colored
For the folder:
Right-click the Shared Folder in the left panel
Select Disconnect
Right-click again and select Connect
8. Restart Obsidian completely
Quit Obsidian entirely (not just close the window)
Restart Obsidian
Check if the stack icon becomes colored
9. Disable and re-enable Relay
Go to Obsidian Settings → Community plugins
Find Relay and toggle it off
Wait a few seconds, then toggle it back on
Check if the stack icon becomes colored
10. Restart your machine
Sometimes system-level issues can affect file tracking. Restart your computer and try again.
If you still need help
If none of these steps resolve the issue:
Use the command palette to run Relay: Send bug report